“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” – Lao Tzu

On this day that the Lord hath made, I vow to take all the time I need examining the long list of titles that are associated with the make up of Tonya.  Boy, is this a long list.  Here we go, I am wife, mother, friend, church mate, baby-mama, sister-in-law, daughter, sister, neighbor.  Now lets … Continue reading →

Motherhood and Marriage not What I Expected

I feel like I’m the worst wife and mother on the planet. I, I, I.  

Flew the Coop

My oldest has flown the coop. Not because she went off to college but because she couldn’t deal with the rules and regulations of this two parent household.  Sadly, it has been a big relief to all in the home.  Her departure.  Her presence was reeking havoc on my sanity and the peace of her … Continue reading →